Asian Canadian Forum

[Kala]

Nothing seems to infuriate Asian guys more than the sight of an Asian woman like me with my sexy white boyfriend. What is it about couples like us that brings out the insecurities in Asian guys? Is it a male sense of ownership? Is it because Asian guys are usually smaller and more delicate that brings out a Napoleon complex? Is it because Asian guys are usually not as well endowed? Is it because Asian guys lack confidence and become frustrated? Is it because of a real or perceived gender imbalance among Asians?

I know some Asian guys can so jealous of non-Asian guys features. One amusing anecdote that I remember as if it happened an hour ago was when I was sitting on my boyfriend's lap at a party gently pulling on the hair on his arms and the jealousy on the faces of Asian guys was so apparent. It was like a 13 year old boys jealous of a 19 year old who can grow a beard. It would have been funny, but it was adult Asian men who were jealous.

There could be lots of other reasons too. I know I just barely scratched the surface here, so please give your opinions.

[BritishManwhore]

That's a poor troll

[Kala]

I am not trolling, I am simply talking about reality. If this is a discussion forum what is wrong with discussing issues around ir? You might say that I too blunt, but I am not trolling.

[Romero]

Troll. Don't you find it a bit odd that you're a white guy pretending to be an Asian girl?

[Kala]

Troll. Don't you find it a bit odd that you're a white guy pretending to be an Asian girl?

You can believe what you want, but I am Asian and my boyfriend is white. I only wanted to bounce thoughts off of each other, but instead I get false accusations.

Is this topic off limits? Are we not allowed to discuss it? What is it about this subject that makes some people immediately throw the "troll" label?

[Romero]

It's understandable that an Asian girl may prefer white guys but your silly stereotypes give you away. No Asian girl would say such things. You reek of racist troll.

I could swear you're Diana on Model Minority.

[Zetsu]

Lol I would just ignore those emo losers, whether your boyfriend is White or the moon happens to be only half full they'll still bitch about it.

[Shen Li]

Lol I would just ignore those emo losers, whether your boyfriend is White or the moon happens to be only half full they'll still bitch about it.

My thoughts as well Zetsu. I couldn't give a flying f*ck who this Kala person dates or whatever stupid reason she chooses whitey. However, just like that instigator troll she is boring and repetitive. All of us here have chimed in on the IR issue, but we don't beat it to death like this newby does.

[Zetsu]

But at least on the good side a lot of these cry baby also happens to be wusses, so if you give them death threats they'll quietly do as you say worrying you'll beat them up.

[Azhya Aryola]

It's one of those things I have blinders to. I just don't notice it and even if an Asian male was present in the room and can't stand my white companion then that's just too bad. It would not matter to me one bit. The effort he takes to get upset at me will be lost with me.