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[Tatertot]

Just wondering cuz my last bf was into it big time, even though he kept denying it. I found out by looking at his browsing history.

My fiance isn't at all. He says it degrades women. I believe him cuz he's a very moral and principled guy.

Just wondering if there are more guys like him out there or if most have the whole porn addiction thing going on.

[teenie weenie]

You have a cute name.

[mimi]

Just wondering cuz my last bf was into it big time, even though he kept denying it. I found out by looking at his browsing history.

My fiance isn't at all. He says it degrades women. I believe him cuz he's a very moral and principled guy.

Just wondering if there are more guys like him out there or if most have the whole porn addiction thing going on.

Your fiance sounds like a keeper. =))

[Gay Boy Bob]

Mundane never stops posting about gay sex. I suspect he uses up most of his 'bandwidth' by the 2nd or 3rd of the month.

[weebles]

I thought both sexes looked at porn? and that it was quite normal

[GranpaP]

I thought both sexes looked at porn? and that it was quite normal

Women probably more than men.

[cc la tarte]

cc ducks possible dangerous items hurled @ gramps by usually gentile fems


Anyhow, many fems do watch porn but as a "general" rule, I believe, are not as strongly into it as males

[evs]

a married male friend of mine once told me that all married men lie. that's how they stayed married, because they learn to lie really well and don't mind doing it. i kind of believe that friend.

it's cute tho how many women think that only their husbands/boyfriends don't lie. it's cute and somewhat saddening.

[cc la tarte]

Any statements that generalize with "all" bla bla ... should be taken for what they are worth .... very little

"All fems do not lie" would be about as valid as the above "all males lie" statement ... not very

[evs]

the porn question - most living people, men and women, look at it and there's nothing wrong with that.

[evs]

Any statements that generalize with "all" bla bla ... should be taken for what they are worth .... very little

let me guess cc - your husband never lies to you, correct?

[cc la tarte]

was expecting that one ... I'm quite surprised to see you generalize with "all whatever" to anything actually.

[evs]

i'm surprised you're avoiding the answer lol

[cc la tarte]

If I say "no", then you say "ha ha, you think, as ALL men lie"

I don't roll "pre-loaded" dice

[evs]

weak:)

[teenie weenie]

the porn question - most living people, men and women, look at it and there's nothing wrong with that.

teenage kids too.

[Berry Sweet]

I would think all guys look at porn, it's quite normal. Some are just too much into it...there is no need for a closet full of porn ormultiply porn sites book marked on your computer...then there is a problem.

[cc la tarte]

OK, cc grabs loaded dice & tosses em into the pit ..... correct!

[evs]

btw, you learn to love them despite their lying, taters. you kind of go with - they all lie but my husband only lies because *insert some really good reason here*.

[GAMBINO]

splat splat splat right on the fucken kkkkeyyyboarrr

[evs]

OK, cc grabs loaded dice & tosses em into the pit ..... correct!

no worries cc, it's all good.

[evs]

taters, the best part of your marriage is actually after you gain that leverage over them when you catch them in a lie for the first time; then your perfect very moral and principled guy can finally stop pretending he's that and you can finally stop thinking that he's perfect and use the fact that he will lie to you again to win arguments.

this may be little early for you to digest being that you guys are not even married yet, so take it easy for now. you don't even have to think about this until it happens. and that may not be in the next 10 or 20 years so just - relax:)

also, chances are he really is that perfect guy now, but then, life happens, taters. it's only natural. expect it. and know that it's not the end of the world when it does.

[ian]

Just wondering cuz my last bf was into it big time, even though he kept denying it.

He was scared of being a man

My fiance isn't at all. He says it degrades women. I believe him cuz he's a very moral and principled guy.

He's a woman. You are going to have 2 beautiful children with him but soon will lose all attractionfor him and start banging mail man while he's at work. Come to think of it the way you wrote the above I'd be surprised if he was banging you more than once a week at this point.

[evs]

wow. harsh. really?

[Tatertot]

I know that people lie, but he's not lying about this. I don't think I'd have that much of a problem with it if he did look but I'm just amazed that he feels so strongly about it. And he's not like holier-than-thou about the stuff he thinks is wrong, he just doesn't do it and he doesn't condemn people who do.

I know he's not perfect but he's perfect for me.

[evs]

i totally believe that. btw, ian seems to be one of those guys who are not perfect for any woman so don't take his comments to heart.

as far as porn. hm. give it time. it's not something you have to make up your mind now for the rest of your life.

[SMP-ness]

Yes, most guys will look at porn if they have the freedom.

At least tell him to download ccleaner.

[GAMBINO]

cc leaner was a good movie

spread eagle nature film

[Munday]

a married male friend of mine once told me that all married men lie. that's how they stayed married, because they learn to lie really well and don't mind doing it. i kind of believe that friend.

it's cute tho how many women think that only their husbands/boyfriends don't lie. it's cute and somewhat saddening.

your friend was being honest.....any man in a relationship has to lie to keep the peace..it's part of the job...no big deal.......woman can't handle the truth.........i have a hell of a lot more respect for someone who watches porn than that slob Oprah or Ellen Degenerate...now that's a disgusting waste of time

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