Berry Sweet wrote:t not that you and I dont get along, you dont like my honesty about you. You are lazy and need to get a job. You know im right about that and you make up excuses for it. It bothers you.
I don't think you realize that I am looking for a job. See the thread "Major developments in my life".
And for one...if you want more respect from posters, stop posting about poo and farts and other nonsense. Stop copying Eds and the dumb shit he says about me. No one likes him either.
I don't think they'd respect me even if I didn't. Pretty sure the damage is done. It's the same with you, I know I can't change how you feel about me. Best I can do is try and accept that you're on this forum.
Go out and get a pt job...you'll feel better and find more confidence in yourself.
That's what I'm trying to do, and you're not being constructive, you're only being destructive in your words.
You cant just sit on disability in your apartment depending on your mom to feed you and your dad to give you money to lose weight or depend on the food bank to feed you....thats not an existance.
I do a lot, I go to a lot of meetings, I go to the library, I go to the job search place, I go to church.
What happens when your rent gets jacked up and exceeds the amound disability gives you?
They're only allowed to raise it by a small amount, and only once a year, according to the Residential Tenancy Act. The only way I'll see a massive hike is if I get renovicted and have to find a new place. And yes, I am considering the low income housing papers my dad showed me. See the other thread.
What happens when your parents get fed up with finacially helping you? Im sure they are trying to save for their own retirement and you are a grown man who needs to take care of himself...
They only financially help me on my birthday and at Christmas. I have a trust fund but it is running out, that's why I'm looking for a job, and that's why I'm considering low income housing.
if you keep living the way you do, one day you are going to find ypurself in an extremely nasty position, you could be homeless....the world owes you nothing and no person owes ypu nothing....you are responsible for your own life.
Not with food banks and soup kitchens and my disability payments, but I want you to know that I am looking for a job and I am considering the low income housing.
I am a single mom and I have unnoticed disabilities...yet I have a job and support myself and my child...sometimes I don't feel like going to work or being a parent...and that is a normal feeling all parents have....BUT i get up every morning, i take my kid to school, I go to work, i pay my bills, i put up with stupid people and I provide for my child.
I expect the same from you.
I expect the same of myself. I really do want that for myself.
[quote="Berry Sweet"]t not that you and I dont get along, you dont like my honesty about you. You are lazy and need to get a job. You know im right about that and you make up excuses for it. It bothers you.[/quote]
I don't think you realize that I am looking for a job. See the thread "Major developments in my life".
[quote]And for one...if you want more respect from posters, stop posting about poo and farts and other nonsense. Stop copying Eds and the dumb shit he says about me. No one likes him either.[/quote]
I don't think they'd respect me even if I didn't. Pretty sure the damage is done. It's the same with you, I know I can't change how you feel about me. Best I can do is try and accept that you're on this forum.
[quote]Go out and get a pt job...you'll feel better and find more confidence in yourself. [/quote]
That's what I'm trying to do, and you're not being constructive, you're only being destructive in your words.
[quote]You cant just sit on disability in your apartment depending on your mom to feed you and your dad to give you money to lose weight or depend on the food bank to feed you....thats not an existance.[/quote]
I do a lot, I go to a lot of meetings, I go to the library, I go to the job search place, I go to church.
[quote]What happens when your rent gets jacked up and exceeds the amound disability gives you? [/quote]
They're only allowed to raise it by a small amount, and only once a year, according to the Residential Tenancy Act. The only way I'll see a massive hike is if I get renovicted and have to find a new place. And yes, I am considering the low income housing papers my dad showed me. See the other thread.
[quote]What happens when your parents get fed up with finacially helping you? Im sure they are trying to save for their own retirement and you are a grown man who needs to take care of himself...[/quote]
They only financially help me on my birthday and at Christmas. I have a trust fund but it is running out, that's why I'm looking for a job, and that's why I'm considering low income housing.
[quote]if you keep living the way you do, one day you are going to find ypurself in an extremely nasty position, you could be homeless....the world owes you nothing and no person owes ypu nothing....you are responsible for your own life.[/quote]
Not with food banks and soup kitchens and my disability payments, but I want you to know that I am looking for a job and I am considering the low income housing.
[quote]I am a single mom and I have unnoticed disabilities...yet I have a job and support myself and my child...sometimes I don't feel like going to work or being a parent...and that is a normal feeling all parents have....BUT i get up every morning, i take my kid to school, I go to work, i pay my bills, i put up with stupid people and I provide for my child.
I expect the same from you.[/quote]
I expect the same of myself. I really do want that for myself.