Odinson wrote: ↑January 26th, 2023, 7:36 pm
Well the thought of her nude curves on me is very arousing.
And the fact that you are very sexual looking bursting out of your tight clothes.
I get it. For a lot of guys (more than you realize) a fleshy girl in a tight outfit is very erotic and arousing. It's my experience that even some guys that aren't normally into fat girls are courious about us and I'm cool with that. When I was younger I had guys tell me that they never had a chubby girl and they wanted to find out what it was like. My usual response was "don't waste your time. We're just like thinner girls only softer". Because I hate to say it but pussy is pussy, it doesn't matter what size the body is that's attached to it. We're all pretty much the same anatomically.
The problem with being a bigger girl is that you are a niche product. FAs are interested in you because you are fat. You have to sort thru their fetishes, obsessions and perversions. Non FAs are occasionally interested in you out of weird curiosity or they just treat you like a port in the storm. You're just an available hole, a booty call... It's very hard to find a guy who is sincerely interested in you for the person that you are. And the bigger and fatter you are, the worse the situation gets.
That's why I was never one to jump in bed with a guy I just met, unless I wanted a quick one and I controlled the situation. If a guy wanted to be with me he would have to prove it. He had to be willing to take me out, romance me, and GOD forbid be seen in public with me and introduce me to his friends and family. If he wasn't willing to do that, or couldn't handle the reaction, it was "good-by, dude. Have a nice life". I was never willing to be some horny dog's dirty little secret because I've seen that happen to other fat girls who got their hearts broken too many times.