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found this interesting video. was thinking about my son's girlfriend as she can be quite toxic.


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Men
Going
Their
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Learn it. Know it. Live it.

Sadly, it's the only way to be sure in this modern Western society, with the 'modern' Western women that now inhabit it...
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That video is for complete idiots.. :teehe:
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I think we are all idiots them Odinson, we all fall for it, and even though people tell us we are blind to the truth.
I fell for one once, and almost a second one, but I blew her off in the during the second date.
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beanthere wrote: March 31st, 2019, 4:21 pm found this interesting video. was thinking about my son's girlfriend as she can be quite toxic.
He will likely learn the hard way, like what do you know about it right :kez:
Seems we try, and they get mad at us, and think they know better.
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Thats narcissistic behaviour. Both men and women do this. These kinds of people live sad and pathetic lives.
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Blue Frost wrote: March 31st, 2019, 9:44 pm I think we are all idiots them Odinson, we all fall for it, and even though people tell us we are blind to the truth.
I fell for one once, and almost a second one, but I blew her off in the during the second date.
Its more like testing than falling.. :teehe:

I wont pay for a date or invest money in other ways unless I´m sure she is mine. :teehe:



And I expect something in return...

I´m too poor to start raising an over grown baby.
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Berry Sweet wrote: April 1st, 2019, 2:15 am Thats narcissistic behaviour. Both men and women do this. These kinds of people live sad and pathetic lives.
The video mentioned men doing it also, and they do for sure. Both sister married one just that was using my parents as much as her.
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Odinson wrote: April 1st, 2019, 9:41 am
Blue Frost wrote: March 31st, 2019, 9:44 pm I think we are all idiots them Odinson, we all fall for it, and even though people tell us we are blind to the truth.
I fell for one once, and almost a second one, but I blew her off in the during the second date.
Its more like testing than falling.. :teehe:

I wont pay for a date or invest money in other ways unless I´m sure she is mine. :teehe:



And I expect something in return...

I´m too poor to start raising an over grown baby.
Ill pay for the date, just the way I think it's suppose to me, and if that goes well Ill pay for the next date.
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Blue Frost wrote: April 1st, 2019, 1:35 pm
Berry Sweet wrote: April 1st, 2019, 2:15 am Thats narcissistic behaviour. Both men and women do this. These kinds of people live sad and pathetic lives.
The video mentioned men doing it also, and they do for sure. Both sister married one just that was using my parents as much as her.
Theyre soul suckers, very nasty people. I dont have time for their excuses and manipulative behaviour.

Unless the video has captions, I cant hear it well. I have a loop I wear that acts as blue tooth to my hearing aids, so its much like head phones...love them, but I dont always have it on me. Im getting new HAs at the end of the year. They are releasing the first HA with blue tooth built in (no more need for the loop) it will also act as a phone, so I can go hands free. Im pretty excited!!
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Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am Im pretty excited!!
I hope the gear works out well for you!

And I'll also give you the same damn advice as I did way back when: You find a nice white boy! :angry:
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Mel Gibson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 6:43 am
Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am Im pretty excited!!
I hope the gear works out well for you!

And I'll also give you the same damn advice as I did way back when: You find a nice white boy! :angry:
No such thing under age 35...Any that are worth a shit are already taken.

White boys can be just as shitty as any other race. Many of the younger ones are afflicted or infected with terminal narcissism, or gender confusion, or uber liberal ideology, Oedipus complexes, immaturity, and many are prone to substance abuse....Just ask any one of my daughters how hard it is to find a decent guy in their age bracket....On average younger white boys, are far from marriage material just as badly as any other race...

Unfortunately it's the world we created and white people are not the 1950s picture of middleclass white America anymore...We have degenerated morally, ethically, socially as well as physically and it grows more and more noticeable with each passing generation.

My advice is find a nice second or third generation Asian boy that comes from a respectable upper middleclass family....They're smart, respectful, polite, ambitious and upwardly mobile. That sounds like a stereotype but it's more often than not,....the truth.
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Blue Frost wrote: April 1st, 2019, 1:37 pm
Odinson wrote: April 1st, 2019, 9:41 am
Blue Frost wrote: March 31st, 2019, 9:44 pm I think we are all idiots them Odinson, we all fall for it, and even though people tell us we are blind to the truth.
I fell for one once, and almost a second one, but I blew her off in the during the second date.
Its more like testing than falling.. :teehe:

I wont pay for a date or invest money in other ways unless I´m sure she is mine. :teehe:



And I expect something in return...

I´m too poor to start raising an over grown baby.
Ill pay for the date, just the way I think it's suppose to me, and if that goes well Ill pay for the next date.
I wont drop a couple of hundred bucks on some woman I barely know.

Its a cultural thing... We dont pay.. :teehe:

Woman pays her own food if she has money.

Woman also pays her share of the bills..
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couple hundred :laugh: I'm talking a few $20s, sorry I'm not rich, and kind of cheap I guess.
If I found out I really loved her I might drop that much, and buy her a big ring if it got that far.
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Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am
Blue Frost wrote: April 1st, 2019, 1:35 pm
Berry Sweet wrote: April 1st, 2019, 2:15 am Thats narcissistic behaviour. Both men and women do this. These kinds of people live sad and pathetic lives.
The video mentioned men doing it also, and they do for sure. Both sister married one just that was using my parents as much as her.
Theyre soul suckers, very nasty people. I dont have time for their excuses and manipulative behaviour.

Unless the video has captions, I cant hear it well. I have a loop I wear that acts as blue tooth to my hearing aids, so its much like head phones...love them, but I dont always have it on me. Im getting new HAs at the end of the year. They are releasing the first HA with blue tooth built in (no more need for the loop) it will also act as a phone, so I can go hands free. Im pretty excited!!
Iv'e dwelt with them, and have paid the price for the lesson, and also the price for my sisters lesson they never got.
Been to court because those worthless bums several times. Not to get into details, but it took me throwing a railroad tie through a windshield, and putting a gun to his head just to get the point across to leave, and stay gone.
All that after a judge told the bastard to stay away from me.
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Renee wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 11:20 am
Mel Gibson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 6:43 am
Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am Im pretty excited!!
I hope the gear works out well for you!

And I'll also give you the same damn advice as I did way back when: You find a nice white boy! :angry:

My advice is find a nice second or third generation Asian boy that comes from a respectable upper middleclass family....They're smart, respectful, polite, ambitious and upwardly mobile. That sounds like a stereotype but it's more often than not,....the truth.
Snow princess.. :teehe:

Dont you know your white sisters?
They are open minded about dating other races for as long the other race isnt asian.


That would be too reasonable..


The prince has to be the Jihadi Joe, jungle cahoona or Salsa Santorini...

The sex is great when you can cause your white father to have a bleeding ulcer..
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Blue Frost wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 7:18 pm couple hundred :laugh: I'm talking a few $20s, sorry I'm not rich, and kind of cheap I guess.
If I found out I really loved her I might drop that much, and buy her a big ring if it got that far.
I dont go to a restaurant too often..

On occasion, I like going to places where the food is done exactly right. :teehe:
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Odinson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 8:20 pm
Renee wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 11:20 am
Mel Gibson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 6:43 am
Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am Im pretty excited!!
I hope the gear works out well for you!

And I'll also give you the same damn advice as I did way back when: You find a nice white boy! :angry:

My advice is find a nice second or third generation Asian boy that comes from a respectable upper middleclass family....They're smart, respectful, polite, ambitious and upwardly mobile. That sounds like a stereotype but it's more often than not,....the truth.
Snow princess.. :teehe:

Dont you know your white sisters?
They are open minded about dating other races for as long the other race isnt asian.


That would be too reasonable..


The prince has to be the Jihadi Joe, jungle cahoona or Salsa Santorini...

The sex is great when you can cause your white father to have a bleeding ulcer..
Maybe that's true where you live. Living in that progressive socialist shithole known as the EU warps young minds and turns people into liberal zombies who think that "diversity is our strength"... :kez:

We have a dumbass country to our immediate North that thinks along those lines....Thankfully there is only about 3 people per square mile up there, so there isn't much to blow up... :laugh:
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Renee wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 11:20 am No such thing under age 35...Any that are worth a shit are already taken.

White boys can be just as shitty as any other race. Many of the younger ones are afflicted or infected with terminal narcissism, or gender confusion, or uber liberal ideology, Oedipus complexes, immaturity, and many are prone to substance abuse....Just ask any one of my daughters how hard it is to find a decent guy in their age bracket....On average younger white boys, are far from marriage material just as badly as any other race...

Unfortunately it's the world we created and white people are not the 1950s picture of middleclass white America anymore...We have degenerated morally, ethically, socially as well as physically and it grows more and more noticeable with each passing generation.

My advice is find a nice second or third generation Asian boy that comes from a respectable upper middleclass family....They're smart, respectful, polite, ambitious and upwardly mobile. That sounds like a stereotype but it's more often than not,....the truth.
The same could be said of white women also, to be honest. And yes, there are good ones out there, but as you'd mentioned, many are already taken.

And yes, the 1960's was when things started to get 'goofy' in not only in America, but I would think in many Western nations as well. That was essentially the decade that started the entire decline of what we would consider the 'standard American family unit'... Sure, perhaps some changes were good: A little more 'freedom and liberation' and whatnot, but these societal shifts did not come without consequences either...

I agree with you regarding Asians, generally speaking. There are a fairly high number of them here. Understand that any 'upwardly mobile' Asian would more than likely place high standards on his women, including white women, so better bring your game. Don't forget also, that while I'm myself not so much for racial inter-mixing, neither are many Asians either! Their families still place some importance on marrying 'their own kind', believe me! Now, they may still view a White as 'acceptable' in some circumstances, but you just watch what would happen if Michelle Kwon Lee brought home some 'groid! I can assure you that would be the last time said 'groid would be entering the home of any family members! :laugh:
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Renee wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 8:55 pm
Odinson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 8:20 pm
Renee wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 11:20 am
Mel Gibson wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 6:43 am
Berry Sweet wrote: April 2nd, 2019, 3:42 am Im pretty excited!!
I hope the gear works out well for you!

And I'll also give you the same damn advice as I did way back when: You find a nice white boy! :angry:

My advice is find a nice second or third generation Asian boy that comes from a respectable upper middleclass family....They're smart, respectful, polite, ambitious and upwardly mobile. That sounds like a stereotype but it's more often than not,....the truth.
Snow princess.. :teehe:

Dont you know your white sisters?
They are open minded about dating other races for as long the other race isnt asian.


That would be too reasonable..


The prince has to be the Jihadi Joe, jungle cahoona or Salsa Santorini...

The sex is great when you can cause your white father to have a bleeding ulcer..
Maybe that's true where you live. Living in that progressive socialist shithole known as the EU warps young minds and turns people into liberal zombies who think that "diversity is our strength"... :kez:

We have a dumbass country to our immediate North that thinks along those lines....Thankfully there is only about 3 people per square mile up there, so there isn't much to blow up... :laugh:

Whats the similarity between an american white girl and a brick wall?

Both been laid by a mexican. :teehe:


I know you eventually wind up with a nice guy who you marry... But thats only after the fiesta loca.


Asians are not that popular in the american dating market... Unless its an asian woman..

The other minorities are quite popular among american white girls... A white girl for every finger.. :teehe:


And you know it yourself..
The next time you see a white girl with something other than a white guy... 1000 dollars says its not an asian man shes with..

Unless you count a pakistani as asian.
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